Irresponsible. Stupid. And I'm sick of it.
I was working in my office when I heard it.
Mecca's distinct snarl indicating someone unfamiliar has entered our private space.
I jumped out of my chair, and ran to my patio glass in search of her. My yard is gated, so hence the snarl. Someone had to be in the yard. And there was. The utilty man.
I keep the yard unlocked with a "Beware of Dog" sign on the door. Not because she's anything to be wary of, but because that gate is unlocked and I want anyone feeling brazen enough to just come on in, to know there is a dog onsite. This however, does not seem to deter the utility man from just walking in each month to "read the meter."
I look and see Mecca offering a warning bark. She's crouched low, and she's barking very loudly as if to say, "Not supposed to be in here." I look and see Mr. Utility man yielding a long, metal baton, which he is using to jab Mecca under her arm, in the soft fold seperating her joint from tissue. She is angry and she snarls, he pokes again...with a grin on his face.
Mecca is a pitbull.
I open the patio glass, jump into the yard and call Mecca's name while he continues to jab at her and she gets increasingly upset. She does not respond to me, and her growl takes an ugly turn I am not used to. I call out to the Utility man to stop it, and to stand still. He looks up at me, amusement dying slowly from his eyes, and he lets down the metal baton. Mecca continues to bark, but she does not move toward him as I've told her to "wait." Which for Mecca means, "freeze." This man sees the anxiety in my face and offers his feeble hello and explanation for being in my yard.
"Is there something wrong with you?" I exclaim wildly, having collared Mecca and ushered her into my house.
"I was just keeping her away from me." He offers with a shrug.
"Wrong. You were antagonizing her. Big fucking difference. Why would you stand there grinning and jabbing her that way? You see my truck in the yard, you KNOW I work virtually and you KNOW I am home. So why would you walk in the yard, and initate something that foolish when I've asked your company repeatedly to KNOCK to let me know you need access to the YARD?"
He apologies and casts his eyes away, immediately uncomfortable with my anger. He knows better. We both are painfully aware of this.
"This is a pitbull. Okay? And yes, she's been raised with love and she's mostly harmless, but that does not mean it is in anyway logical for you to walk into this yard, jab her with an object, toy with her anger and expect that to be acceptable knowing full well if she were to bite you, I'd have a thousand reporters in my backyard reporting on another savage attack by a wild and unmanageable breed. I would have to destroy her, because you have no common sense. From now on, there will be a lock on that gate to remind you to do what I asked your company to do - each month for an ENTIRE year."
In between his apologies, I took his name, and reported the incident to the Utility company. And then, I put a lock on that gate. Not because my dog is vicious. Not because she's bitten any one ever in her eight years of living. Not because she has an aggressive bone in her body. I did it because pitbulls have a reputation. I did it because it's the smart thing to do (even if my lease says I cannot prohibit access to the yard). I did it because I understand the NATURE of the breed, and I respect the job I signed on for when my Dad purchased her for me when she was six weeks aold. I did it because I love my dog and I will do anything to protect her. I did it, because I don't want my lack of vigilance to incite a pitbull ban in yet another city. I did it because I am a RESPONSIBLE PITBULL OWNER.
I am tired of the stories. Children, innocent people injured because of the lack of responsibilty demonstrated by ignorant pet owners. Media: stop fanning the fires with stories designed to encourage fear and loathing. Everyone that owns a pit, is not a drug dealing, rebel rousing troublemaker. For every story you burn the wires with about a child, an elderly senior citizen or random person on the street that is the victim of a terrifying attack, there is another pitbull that is afraid of cats, napping somewhere in a ray of sunshine on the carpet who's bark is far more meaty than their bite - because they've NEVER BITTEN ANYTHING BUT KIBBLE. There is another pit that gets jabbed, poked, tortured and overbred to help foster a sterotype, there is another irresponsible idiot watching the news, getting excited about the notion of a "killer beast" who is neglecting a puppy, feeding it meat tinged with battery acid and letting it dangle from a chew toy thrown over a laundry line with a 20 pound chain around it's neck.
DIG. DEEPER.
Another story here. Another story there. Everytime there is an attack, someone calls me to inform me of it. The answer is not banning. The answer is not lazy reporting. The answer is education and different initiatives, different laws that punish the OWNER and not the dog. Put some laws in place. Stop running innocent pitbull owners out of town like they're fucking Frankenstein. Make me pay for a yearly license to carry her, since you want to make her a loaded gun. Threaten me with jailtime if she's caught in an attack that appears unprovoked. You'll get no complaint from me, because I KNOW the love, time, energy and commitment that was put into my pitbull. I know I am responsible. And I know to take the ownership of my animal EXTREMELY seriously. Many of us with pitbulls, do.
Do something OTHER than tell me I have to leave your town because my dog is a threat to society. She is not.Ignorant, sonsofbitch lazy OWNERS are.
Let's do something else besides chase monsters with angry sticks and ugly chants.
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Wow. You nailed this. I like Pit's. But I am weary of Pit owners. Hell, I'm suspect of all big dog owners,ab initio.
I live inner city-big city, so responsible dog handling is a must. There was an effort, here in Chicago, to bifurcate license requirements regarding certain breeds; most pointedly, Pit Bulls. It went away. This is a big dog town.
Nice post, important issue, and wonderful layout.
It is just wrong to treat an animal that way, and to enjoy doing it is just sick!
Your girl is beautiful!
i think i would've taken the baton and poked that guy with it, too. why does anyone think cruelty to animals, even behind flimsy "self-defense" excuses, is in any way shape or form acceptable?
and why do pit bulls have this reputation? because it's been bred into them. it's not the dogs' fault, it's the people who bred pits to be "vicious", and as you've demonstrated, despite that reputation, it's all about how they're raised.
my heart goes out to you, hun. even the thought of losing a four-legged companion is extremely upsetting. you do what you have to to keep Mecca safe and sound and with you!
p.s. she's absolutely gorgeous, btw. :~)
if you mistreat ANY animal, they'd be likely to turn vicious on you. give them love and kindness, and they'll be your best friend.
hm, kinda sounds like kids.
I must say, since reading your blog I have actually changed my opinion pitbulls. Here in NY they make them out to be such vicious animals.
Aju and I were just looking at the similarities between Mecca's pics and Marshy's pics - it's uncanny. Must be the pit in them :)
Well now it's funny you should say that. I think in some cases, minorities (or anyone that tastes the bit of a inane stereotype) have an affinity for "dangerous breeds" out of sympathy for them. It's almost as if being a "cultural outcast" just increases the affection. And there's a lot of different directions I can move on with that. But that unto itself is another conversation - about race and social class. Poor, rich, white, black, green, orange or fushia...if you buy into the stereotype for a breed, and encourage it (for whatever deluded reason) it's criminal, sad and a horrible injustice the the subject.
Oh! I just fell in love with your dog. You can tell her I said, "You're a good girl! Yes you are! Yes you are! Little puppy, you're just so cute!" and I'm done.
You are a responsible, loving parent and that utility man is a jackass.
Out of curiousity, what was the reaction of most when the licensing discussion popped up? Was it indifference? I have long wondered why in lieu of bans, most cities don't opt to do something along those lines.
I would argue that responsible owners that love their dogs would be happen to apply for a license and follow new laws to prevent having to move out of a city, or find a new home for their beloved pet before they are taken away.
Mecca is a housedog, but like any silly canine, she loves laying in the sun. They always seem to walk in just when she's "tanning."
I finally just put a lock on the gate. They complain, but you know what else? They knock, because now they don't have a choice. Thankfully, my rental company "looks the other way" on the rule of not locking the gate. Why? Because they love Mecca almost as much as I do.
Don't get me wrong...I understand people's fear. If I am walking down the street and I see a stray one? I'm gonna wet my pants possibly like anyone else. But why? Because I don't know who it belongs to, I don't know if it's been raised responsibly (especially if its walking around outside off the leash and just prowling about) and let's face it - they do have one helluva bite and a tendency towards aggression. If you train them, and stay vigilant about it, you'll find they are actually very loving, very silly and very affectionate dogs. Every pit I've even known would be inclined to lick you to death before maul you.
And I think I would have taken that stick and hit him with it - except that would excite an excited dog even more! Well done for remaining in control of a bad situation.
Our meters are indoors - here they mostly all are, or are just outside the front door - so I am not going to have this problem with Heidi. She loves people, but she is big and a German Shepherd cross, so some people are scared around her.
I wonder if the power company is actually training its employees to respond to dogs this way. I suspect employees were probably afraid and someone came up with this ignorant solution to try to show the dog who is boss.
I have to admit that I am one of those who it afraid of the pitbull. I was attacked by a dog (a German Shepard) as a kid and have been afraid of larger, seemingly more "aggressive" dogs as a result. I certainly do not advocate for an all-out ban on pitbulls, but as so many people are irresponsible with these dogs and either do not understand, or do not care about, the breed's nature, the idea of a license of some sort is appealing. I am trying to let go of the fear and bias, and truthfully the fear is more of how irresponsible the dogs' human companions have been.
Did you know, that there was a law recently passed through senate in the state of Texas that basically says that if ANYONE comes onto your property, and you feel threatened, you CAN shoot them? I know you're liberal, and I am not. However, this is one of those examples when having a gun around might have done you some good (not to shoot him but to warn him via perhaps just bringing it out to SHOW him that the law is not on his side in our grand state of Texas). It is sad what society is producing these days..and he is but one example. One glimpse of the evening news will prove what I mean. Texas does also have a general law that states you have a right to defend your property (including your animals).
The Senate version of Texas Castle Doctrine legislation, Senate Bill 378 by State Senator Jeff Wentworth (R-San Antonio), moved ahead of the House version, House Bill 284, in the legislative process yesterday. Ref. www.nraila.org/Legislation/Read.aspx?ID=2745
check this out..I also referred this post to a fellow pit-lover
Hmm, while I agree with you in theory, my son was bitten by a half-pit who was raised by an owner who did none of the things that bring out the aggression. Granted, he is a toddler, and a lot of dogs are just spooked by toddlers, but he didn't do anything to provoke it. He was actually playing with another dog, and the half-pit (Cheyenne is her name) just sort of bit him.
She was ordinarily a good dog, and I have no idea what got into her. We didn't put her down. We just found her a new home--a home without toddlers and other dogs (she had jealousy issues, as they say) where she could be the sole object of love and attention, and she's doing fine. But she wasn't raised to bite or fight at all, and I really don't think he provoked it. She just bit him.
Still, I do agree with you that people need to be more responsible in their raising of dogs, especially pitbulls, and I very much admire the way you handled the situation. That utility guy needs some schoolin'.
2nd call: the police
3rd call: his employer
something would have gotten done LOL
First, there's no way to know if a "Pit Bull Attack" is really an attack by a Pit Bull. The average person can seldom pick out the pit bull from a line up. There are many breeds that resemble Pits. Go ahead and try to find the Pit Bull. Belle is my second Pit Bull and it still took me two tries to get the right one! :)
Second, you mention the "nature" of Pit Bulls. I'm not quite sure what you meant by that. Yes, they are loyal and protective. Many dogs are. A common fallacy about Pits, though, is that it is in their nature to be aggressively protective. In fact, Pits were originally bred as gaming animals, fighting in "pits" against other dogs, small animals or even bulls (if I remember correctly). That is why the terrier was bred into them, for the small animal gaming.
However, Pits were expected to be extremely human friendly. An American Pit Bull Terrier that showed any sign of human aggression was considered defective and put down. Humans had to be able to enter the pit and pull two dogs apart or get the Pit Bull away from the small animal or the prey without fear of the dog turning on the human. In other words, American Pit Bull Terriers were bred to be totally human friendly. That is their nature.
My previous Pit Bull had to be put down at age 14. She had gone blind and had become aggressive. That was not her nature but a result of aging and failing health. You have to work at making a Pit Bull human aggressive, keeping the dog segregated from everyone but one owner and mistreating it.
Oh, and I want to congratulate you for controlling yourself in this situation. I would have put my dog in the house then returned to beat the heck out of the utility guy with his own stick.
For anyone interested in Pit Bulls, I have to recommend a fascinating and informative DVD that you can order online: Off The Chain.
It's worth the cost of the DVD. In fact, if you're as moved as I was by it, I'd ask that you donate your copy or an additional copy to your local library, city council or humane society. It really ought to be required media for anyone about to vote on BSL. (I am not affiliated with the production in any way.)
Marisa
Ha. Kids can be tricky, and not just in the way that you mean.
I know Cheyenne is just a dog, and overall a good dog, but we can't have a dog prone to attacking randomly, not around the kid. So, we did what we could to prevent it, which was to find her a toddler-free home (friends of my aunt, too, who already knew her).
Now we have labs. They are far too busy eating and sleeping to bite a person, and they don't react negatively to our son at all (except for the phase he went through where he was pulling their tails, but, honestly, we wouldn't have blamed the poor things for biting him then. Finally, we have put a stop to that).
As a hypothetical question, if you had children of your own, would you still feel comfortable having Mecca? Do you think that if she was raised with kids she would get used to them and be OK? Some dogs don't ever like kids (not just pitbulls), and I think Cheyenne was probably one of those.
Thanks for sharing the information about the video and your viewpoints!
I'll be honest with you, I got an uneasy feeling once when Mecca was in the room with a baby. She baby was laying on the couch, and she went over to the couch sniffed, and looked almost as she does when she's about to snatch a toy and begin playing with it. Again, I don't think this is about aggression is as much as her inability to distinguish a small infant with a plush toy...but to be sure, I put her in another room until the child was gone. I just didn't feel right, and I've learned to respect a bad feeling when it surfaces.
If I were to have a baby...I'm not sure I'd be willing to try and socialize Mecca with the child, as Mecca is eight years old and well conditioned to her quiet, simple lifestyle. To your point, any dog like that can sometimes have great difficulty getting used to a child. So...I'd have to think about some other considerations. I would never keep her outside, because she's a house dog and needs to be around people. I couldn't give her away...well, because she's as much my baby as I've ever had....so the only option would be to either have her live with my mother, my father or my sister, any of which would be happy to have Mecca back in their home. She's the "star" of the family, so she'd bed comfortable with any of those options. I would not trust her in the hands of anyone else on a permanent basis, and I couldn't bear her experiencing depression.
Ugh. This is making me sad just thinking about it. I need to go wake her up and give her kisses until she sighs sleepily in my face...
> Me and my...giant...brindle...ahhh...bunny
I've got the visual, and it's great!
I'm glad you yelled at the guy, what an ass.
I wonder, though, if it were YOUR baby, RPM, if she would be super protective of the baby rather than jealous. You never know I guess.
Even with my little 10 lb dog, I worry about him with kids. Being a cute little dog, kids flock to him and want to pet him. He's pretty good around kids, but again, he was not raised with or around many children at all, so he's just not that used to them. He gets freaked by the sudden frankenstein movements of toddlers, and when the kids close in on him for pets or they start to bug him too much (coughnephewscough) he will get snappish. He does NOT try to bite them, he is just doing the warnign snap to get them away. If the kid is too slow they may get inadvertently nipped. THAT's what scares me....I try to keep my dog away from kids if I can help it, but if they don't leave him alone when I tell them to and they get bitten (NIPPED by accident...) what happens if a parent overreacts? I have had the same 'fantasy' as you RPM, heading for Mexico with my fugitive chihuahua, taking him back to the Motherland to escape the Euthanizer. you just...never...know...
Just wait another 7-10 years before having kids, and that should probably take care of it.
And to be perfectly fair to Mecca and other dogs, little children also think of dogs as large, moving plush toys. We're having hell trying to teach our son that the dogs can be hurt by him and that that isn't good or funny or right. He doesn't know. If we're talking about the responsibility of owners of dogs, we also have to talk about the responsibility of owners - um, parents - of children. I don't think a lot of kids are ever taught how to properly interact with and care for animals, that animals need care and to be treated with respect.
Crankypants brings up some good points. While I wouldn't ever, personally, ask to have a dog put down because it bit my kid (although, I might get all mama bear and kill him myself--probably not, but my maternal protective instinct is very strong), I know a lot of parents would. And utility men as well, of course. But I know my son, and my first thought would be, "What did he do to provoke the dog?" I don't mean my son is a bad kid; like I said, he just hasn't learned yet. Although he has learned that he gets in trouble if he pulls their tails/pokes their eyes/etc., so we're making progress.
::grumbles about the bad man::::
RPM your dog is gorgeous and deserving of your love and affection. I`m glad you gave it to the utility guy verbally, your restraint in dealing with this situation certainly saved you from making the headlines and further demonising the breed.
I have grown up with dogs my whole life and the preferred bred in family has been and is still Pit Bull (American Pit Bull and Staffordshire Bull Terriers). Personally despite being mauled by a Basenji when I was six and still having quite visible facial scarring, I have no fear of dogs. I do however have respect, perhaps something the utility guy could stand to learn.
When you step into someones yard you are certainly moving from a point of relative safety into the unknown. When that environment contains a wild beast then you become part of it`s jungle. The beast won`t see it any other way.
It sounds as though you`ve done well at socialising Mecca and she respects you a lot. If only there were more responsible dog owners and fewer idiots with metal batons.
I've seen you in action, babe, I wouldn't want to be on the other end of your wrath, haa haa.
this is a post i made just a couple weeks ago.
put an end to animal fighting
the bill it talks about passed in the 1st stages but now we're just waiting for the House to approve. (or the senate which ever comes next, i cant remember at this moment)
but ... it's bills like that, that will help these animals in the long run and help support the owners who DO take care and love their animals
you have such an adorable "furry" baby.
you are right about the problem being "Ignorant, sonsofbitch lazy OWNERS". a co-worker of mine always says "punish the owner, not the dog".
I'd also like to know how the utility guy would feel if someone hit him with a stick!