Irresponsible. Stupid. And I'm sick of it.

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Damn. I wish you could have taken the baton and jabbed him. Fucker.
He was poking her and smiling? That sounds down right sadistic no matter what breed she is. I agree that it's the stupid owners. Which is why I don't take my anger at the barking dogs next door out on them. They're doing what untrained dogs do. I just go ahead and hate the neighbors.
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There's a couple of pits that run with my hound at the lake. Their sweethearts.

Wow. You nailed this. I like Pit's. But I am weary of Pit owners. Hell, I'm suspect of all big dog owners,ab initio.

I live inner city-big city, so responsible dog handling is a must. There was an effort, here in Chicago, to bifurcate license requirements regarding certain breeds; most pointedly, Pit Bulls. It went away. This is a big dog town.

Nice post, important issue, and wonderful layout.
Honestly given that he was being sadistic, you might have reported him to the police as well as his employer.

It is just wrong to treat an animal that way, and to enjoy doing it is just sick!

Your girl is beautiful!


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i think i would've taken the baton and poked that guy with it, too. why does anyone think cruelty to animals, even behind flimsy "self-defense" excuses, is in any way shape or form acceptable?

and why do pit bulls have this reputation? because it's been bred into them. it's not the dogs' fault, it's the people who bred pits to be "vicious", and as you've demonstrated, despite that reputation, it's all about how they're raised.

my heart goes out to you, hun. even the thought of losing a four-legged companion is extremely upsetting. you do what you have to to keep Mecca safe and sound and with you!

p.s. she's absolutely gorgeous, btw. :~)

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Oh my god! what an ASSHOLE!!! I hate people I really do. You did the right thing & I congratulate you for having the presence of mind and persistence to yell at him and get all that info from him. I either would have garbled something at him and taken my dog inside & been pissed off or, geez, I don't even know what. But then, maybe after a year, I WOULD have had it together enough to do all of that. I used to hate pit bulls, I admit, because of what bad owners turned the breed stereotype into...mostly I am nervous about ANY dog that could easily chomp my dog in half if provoked (and my dumb little dog with a Napoleon complex could provoke Lassie, I think), if I am walking Elvis. But I have met a few really really sweet pits that have changed my mind. Of course I was alone at the time, but the one cornered me in my apartment basement when I was trying to come up the steps from doing laundry. The owner called it off and it turned out to be really sweet once it stopped growling. But, as you alluded to....it's OWNERS that are bad. I cannot stand irresponsible pet owners. I will stop here and again say [this is good]. and sorry for your frustrations with the stoopid utility co. You are right to protect your dog.
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i've always had a soft spot in my heart for the pitbulls (and the american/standard staffordshires, too), and this guy is the EPITOMY (sp?) of why there are pitbull bans in cities and towns all across america. people think they're being funny. or brave. and really, they're just being ASSHATS.

if you mistreat ANY animal, they'd be likely to turn vicious on you. give them love and kindness, and they'll be your best friend.

hm, kinda sounds like kids.
woah. yeah. he deserved that.
Must have been "read the meters day" all over the place because my dogs were cutting up yesterday morning and there was a guy opening the gate to my backyard to read the meter. But I have Yorkies, so they didn't get taunted. I shudder to think what would have happened with your utility guy edging Mecca on like that and you hadn't been around.
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That's the thing that burns me--sure owners need to be responsible for their dogs, but other people have got to be responsible for how they act around dogs. Poking a dog with a stick. Is the guy a Neaderthal?
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I cannot believe the arrogance of that asshole! Poking at ANY dog and saying, "I just wanted to keep it away from me." How stupid do you have to be? I hope you follow up on the complaint.
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I hate idiots who are always antagonizing big dogs. Usually I am thinking to myself..."Bite his stupid ass."

I must say, since reading your blog I have actually changed my opinion pitbulls. Here in NY they make them out to be such vicious animals.

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I'd send this post to every reporter anywhere in the country who ever writes another story about the dangerous pit bull. This piece has made me rethink my own biased attitude about the breed. The pitbull is portrayed as the canine equivalent of the stereotypical angry criminal black man in the media, who so often are lazy and eager to have a simplistic target to focus public fear mongering. Give 'em hell RPM.
Amen. Damn idiots. People drive me crazy... it's the people not the breed that are the problem.

Aju and I were just looking at the similarities between Mecca's pics and Marshy's pics - it's uncanny. Must be the pit in them :)


The pitbull is portrayed as the canine equivalent of the stereotypical angry criminal black man in the media, who so often are lazy and eager to have a simplistic target to focus public fear mongering.

Well now it's funny you should say that. I think in some cases, minorities (or anyone that tastes the bit of a inane stereotype) have an affinity for "dangerous breeds" out of sympathy for them. It's almost as if being a "cultural outcast" just increases the affection. And there's a lot of different directions I can move on with that. But that unto itself is another conversation - about race and social class. Poor, rich, white, black, green, orange or fushia...if you buy into the stereotype for a breed, and encourage it (for whatever deluded reason) it's criminal, sad and a horrible injustice the the subject.
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Oh! I just fell in love with your dog. You can tell her I said, "You're a good girl! Yes you are! Yes you are! Little puppy, you're just so cute!" and I'm done.

You are a responsible, loving parent and that utility man is a jackass.

Thanks Razorwire!

Out of curiousity, what was the reaction of most when the licensing discussion popped up? Was it indifference? I have long wondered why in lieu of bans, most cities don't opt to do something along those lines.

I would argue that responsible owners that love their dogs would be happen to apply for a license and follow new laws to prevent having to move out of a city, or find a new home for their beloved pet before they are taken away.
Sassyone: you know what kills me? I called them EVERY month, advising them that I'd prefer to have someone knock on the door, and that a Beware of Dog sign was clearly posted to alert them.

Mecca is a housedog, but like any silly canine, she loves laying in the sun. They always seem to walk in just when she's "tanning."

I finally just put a lock on the gate. They complain, but you know what else? They knock, because now they don't have a choice. Thankfully, my rental company "looks the other way" on the rule of not locking the gate. Why? Because they love Mecca almost as much as I do.
Aww thanks Vissi!

Don't get me wrong...I understand people's fear. If I am walking down the street and I see a stray one? I'm gonna wet my pants possibly like anyone else. But why? Because I don't know who it belongs to, I don't know if it's been raised responsibly (especially if its walking around outside off the leash and just prowling about) and let's face it - they do have one helluva bite and a tendency towards aggression. If you train them, and stay vigilant about it, you'll find they are actually very loving, very silly and very affectionate dogs. Every pit I've even known would be inclined to lick you to death before maul you.
She is gorgeous. Just gorgeous.

And I think I would have taken that stick and hit him with it - except that would excite an excited dog even more! Well done for remaining in control of a bad situation.

Our meters are indoors - here they mostly all are, or are just outside the front door - so I am not going to have this problem with Heidi. She loves people, but she is big and a German Shepherd cross, so some people are scared around her.
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I wonder if the power company is actually training its employees to respond to dogs this way. I suspect employees were probably afraid and someone came up with this ignorant solution to try to show the dog who is boss.

I have to admit that I am one of those who it afraid of the pitbull. I was attacked by a dog (a German Shepard) as a kid and have been afraid of larger, seemingly more "aggressive" dogs as a result. I certainly do not advocate for an all-out ban on pitbulls, but as so many people are irresponsible with these dogs and either do not understand, or do not care about, the breed's nature, the idea of a license of some sort is appealing. I am trying to let go of the fear and bias, and truthfully the fear is more of how irresponsible the dogs' human companions have been.

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Did you know, that there was a law recently passed through senate in the state of Texas that basically says that if ANYONE comes onto your property, and you feel threatened, you CAN shoot them? I know you're liberal, and I am not. However, this is one of those examples when having a gun around might have done you some good (not to shoot him but to warn him via perhaps just bringing it out to SHOW him that the law is not on his side in our grand state of Texas). It is sad what society is producing these days..and he is but one example. One glimpse of the evening news will prove what I mean. Texas does also have a general law that states you have a right to defend your property (including your animals).

The Senate version of Texas Castle Doctrine legislation, Senate Bill 378 by State Senator Jeff Wentworth (R-San Antonio), moved ahead of the House version, House Bill 284, in the legislative process yesterday. Ref. www.nraila.org/Legislation/Read.aspx?ID=2745

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I hope that man gets whats coming to him... really

check this out..I also referred this post to a fellow pit-lover

Hmm, while I agree with you in theory, my son was bitten by a half-pit who was raised by an owner who did none of the things that bring out the aggression. Granted, he is a toddler, and a lot of dogs are just spooked by toddlers, but he didn't do anything to provoke it. He was actually playing with another dog, and the half-pit (Cheyenne is her name) just sort of bit him.

She was ordinarily a good dog, and I have no idea what got into her. We didn't put her down. We just found her a new home--a home without toddlers and other dogs (she had jealousy issues, as they say) where she could be the sole object of love and attention, and she's doing fine. But she wasn't raised to bite or fight at all, and I really don't think he provoked it. She just bit him.

Still, I do agree with you that people need to be more responsible in their raising of dogs, especially pitbulls, and I very much admire the way you handled the situation. That utility guy needs some schoolin'.

I am really glad that you decided to put a lock on your fence. That utility guy really sounds like he was completely insane with his stick poking and all. I would hate to see another story of someone antagonizing a pitbull, getting bitten, and then forcing the owner to euthanize an otherwise harmless animal. The noive!
You know Gin...I recall a time when my neighbors two year old son was in my house, and whenever mecca is around a child, I watch her. Kids can be tricky, and I know some dogs can be triggered by little ones...so I keep Mecca in another room when he visits. I don't believe she'd do anything...but again the issue is responsibility. Mecca wasn't brought up in a house with children, so how she responds to them is always something I am hypervigilant about. It only takes a second for something to happen. I try to avoid "somethings" at all costs. She's sweet, she is still, a dog.

I just have images of me slapping a pair of big floppy bunny ears on Mecca and lugging her toward the border. I'd be a fugitive. Me and my...giant...brindle...ahhh...bunny.


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animals aren't monsters, but some people sure as hell are. reading this made my blood boil and i am so sorry you had to deal with this guy's stupidity.
first call: my lawyer
2nd call: the police
3rd call: his employer

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This utility person needs a reprimand or firing. You have a cute dog there. :)
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you are awesome and this is a great post. i would have been a gibbering idiot. well-handled.
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As a Pit Bull owner and advocate for education regarding this loyal, loving breed, I'd like to make two points regarding your post.

First, there's no way to know if a "Pit Bull Attack" is really an attack by a Pit Bull. The average person can seldom pick out the pit bull from a line up. There are many breeds that resemble Pits. Go ahead and try to find the Pit Bull. Belle is my second Pit Bull and it still took me two tries to get the right one! :)

Second, you mention the "nature" of Pit Bulls. I'm not quite sure what you meant by that. Yes, they are loyal and protective. Many dogs are. A common fallacy about Pits, though, is that it is in their nature to be aggressively protective. In fact, Pits were originally bred as gaming animals, fighting in "pits" against other dogs, small animals or even bulls (if I remember correctly). That is why the terrier was bred into them, for the small animal gaming.

However, Pits were expected to be extremely human friendly. An American Pit Bull Terrier that showed any sign of human aggression was considered defective and put down. Humans had to be able to enter the pit and pull two dogs apart or get the Pit Bull away from the small animal or the prey without fear of the dog turning on the human. In other words, American Pit Bull Terriers were bred to be totally human friendly. That is their nature.

My previous Pit Bull had to be put down at age 14. She had gone blind and had become aggressive. That was not her nature but a result of aging and failing health. You have to work at making a Pit Bull human aggressive, keeping the dog segregated from everyone but one owner and mistreating it.

Oh, and I want to congratulate you for controlling yourself in this situation. I would have put my dog in the house then returned to beat the heck out of the utility guy with his own stick.

For anyone interested in Pit Bulls, I have to recommend a fascinating and informative DVD that you can order online: Off The Chain.

It's worth the cost of the DVD. In fact, if you're as moved as I was by it, I'd ask that you donate your copy or an additional copy to your local library, city council or humane society. It really ought to be required media for anyone about to vote on BSL. (I am not affiliated with the production in any way.)

Marisa
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I'm so happy you were there! He had no right to jab and poke at her... I wish Mecca could have ripped his "gd" arm out of the socket and gotten away with it! Or, maybe you should have :) With the lock in place he has no choice but to let you know when he is there!

Ha. Kids can be tricky, and not just in the way that you mean.

I know Cheyenne is just a dog, and overall a good dog, but we can't have a dog prone to attacking randomly, not around the kid. So, we did what we could to prevent it, which was to find her a toddler-free home (friends of my aunt, too, who already knew her).

Now we have labs. They are far too busy eating and sleeping to bite a person, and they don't react negatively to our son at all (except for the phase he went through where he was pulling their tails, but, honestly, we wouldn't have blamed the poor things for biting him then. Finally, we have put a stop to that).

As a hypothetical question, if you had children of your own, would you still feel comfortable having Mecca? Do you think that if she was raised with kids she would get used to them and be OK? Some dogs don't ever like kids (not just pitbulls), and I think Cheyenne was probably one of those.

Second, you mention the "nature" of Pit Bulls. I'm not quite sure what you meant by that. Yes, they are loyal and protective. Many dogs are. A common fallacy about Pits, though, is that it is in their nature to be aggressively protective. In fact, Pits were originally bred as gaming animals, fighting in "pits" against other dogs, small animals or even bulls (if I remember correctly).


Yes, you are correct in their history, they are game dogs which was my point in mentioning their nature. (My step brother is a vet, and has been a really awesome guide for me in gathering information and details that I can use to educate folks that don't understand the breed and it's history) I don't know pitbulls to be any more or less aggressively protective then any other dog, what I'm referring to is the damage they can do when provoked.

First, there's no way to know if a "Pit Bull Attack" is really an attack by a Pit Bull. The average person can seldom pick out the pit bull from a line up. There are many breeds that resemble Pits.
Great point. I just point out the stories as they are reported. We both know the reality is, no one is going to follow up and clarify any of that information.

Thanks for sharing the information about the video and your viewpoints!


As a hypothetical question, if you had children of your own, would you still feel comfortable having Mecca? Do you think that if she was raised with kids she would get used to them and be OK?

You know Gin, I think about this alot. Mostly because I know Mecca was socialized with many people at an early age, but never with children below the age of 8 or 9. I do wonder how she will do with jealousy and specifically with infants.

I'll be honest with you, I got an uneasy feeling once when Mecca was in the room with a baby. She baby was laying on the couch, and she went over to the couch sniffed, and looked almost as she does when she's about to snatch a toy and begin playing with it. Again, I don't think this is about aggression is as much as her inability to distinguish a small infant with a plush toy...but to be sure, I put her in another room until the child was gone. I just didn't feel right, and I've learned to respect a bad feeling when it surfaces.

If I were to have a baby...I'm not sure I'd be willing to try and socialize Mecca with the child, as Mecca is eight years old and well conditioned to her quiet, simple lifestyle. To your point, any dog like that can sometimes have great difficulty getting used to a child. So...I'd have to think about some other considerations. I would never keep her outside, because she's a house dog and needs to be around people. I couldn't give her away...well, because she's as much my baby as I've ever had....so the only option would be to either have her live with my mother, my father or my sister, any of which would be happy to have Mecca back in their home. She's the "star" of the family, so she'd bed comfortable with any of those options. I would not trust her in the hands of anyone else on a permanent basis, and I couldn't bear her experiencing depression.

Ugh. This is making me sad just thinking about it. I need to go wake her up and give her kisses until she sighs sleepily in my face...

> Me and my...giant...brindle...ahhh...bunny

I've got the visual, and it's great!

I'm glad you yelled at the guy, what an ass.

I wonder, though, if it were YOUR baby, RPM, if she would be super protective of the baby rather than jealous. You never know I guess.

Even with my little 10 lb dog, I worry about him with kids. Being a cute little dog, kids flock to him and want to pet him. He's pretty good around kids, but again, he was not raised with or around many children at all, so he's just not that used to them. He gets freaked by the sudden frankenstein movements of toddlers, and when the kids close in on him for pets or they start to bug him too much (coughnephewscough) he will get snappish. He does NOT try to bite them, he is just doing the warnign snap to get them away. If the kid is too slow they may get inadvertently nipped. THAT's what scares me....I try to keep my dog away from kids if I can help it, but if they don't leave him alone when I tell them to and they get bitten (NIPPED by accident...) what happens if a parent overreacts? I have had the same 'fantasy' as you RPM, heading for Mexico with my fugitive chihuahua, taking him back to the Motherland to escape the Euthanizer. you just...never...know...

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I hate to use bad language in anyone's Vox, but what a bastard for doing that to Mecca.. poking her with the baton. To me, that's just asking for trouble. You don't do that with any breed of dog! I applaud you for what you said and did for your dog. By the way, the pictures of her are adorable. She looks like a sweetheart! :)

Just wait another 7-10 years before having kids, and that should probably take care of it.

And to be perfectly fair to Mecca and other dogs, little children also think of dogs as large, moving plush toys. We're having hell trying to teach our son that the dogs can be hurt by him and that that isn't good or funny or right. He doesn't know. If we're talking about the responsibility of owners of dogs, we also have to talk about the responsibility of owners - um, parents - of children. I don't think a lot of kids are ever taught how to properly interact with and care for animals, that animals need care and to be treated with respect.

Crankypants brings up some good points. While I wouldn't ever, personally, ask to have a dog put down because it bit my kid (although, I might get all mama bear and kill him myself--probably not, but my maternal protective instinct is very strong), I know a lot of parents would. And utility men as well, of course. But I know my son, and my first thought would be, "What did he do to provoke the dog?" I don't mean my son is a bad kid; like I said, he just hasn't learned yet. Although he has learned that he gets in trouble if he pulls their tails/pokes their eyes/etc., so we're making progress.

Makes me wanna take a big stick and poke HIM! Frekkin psycho antagonizing a dog. I bet he pulled the legs of flys too. Isn't cruelty to animals one of the signs of future serial killer? I'm glad you locked your gate - keep your house locked too. And tell Mecca it's OK to protect you. Its her job. And she is GORGEOUS.

::grumbles about the bad man::::
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RPM your dog is gorgeous and deserving of your love and affection. I`m glad you gave it to the utility guy verbally, your restraint in dealing with this situation certainly saved you from making the headlines and further demonising the breed.

I have grown up with dogs my whole life and the preferred bred in family has been and is still Pit Bull (American Pit Bull and Staffordshire Bull Terriers). Personally despite being mauled by a Basenji when I was six and still having quite visible facial scarring, I have no fear of dogs. I do however have respect, perhaps something the utility guy could stand to learn.

When you step into someones yard you are certainly moving from a point of relative safety into the unknown. When that environment contains a wild beast then you become part of it`s jungle. The beast won`t see it any other way.

It sounds as though you`ve done well at socialising Mecca and she respects you a lot. If only there were more responsible dog owners and fewer idiots with metal batons.

By the way it took me three tries to find the pit bull, the other two dogs were Cane Corsos. I was obviously fooled by the cropped ears, none of the dogs my family have ever owned have had their ears cropped. I must have been looking for the archetypical rabid monster.
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That's the kind of shit that just flips my switch and sends me running at whoever is fucking with my dogs with my fists clenched.

I've seen you in action, babe, I wouldn't want to be on the other end of your wrath, haa haa.
This is such a great post. thanks for sharing. I hate people like the guy messing with your dog. I love pits and boxers.... and all other "aggressive breeds" ... People just dont realize how wonderfully sweet these dogs can truly be if in the right home with the right kinda love.
this is a post i made just a couple weeks ago.
put an end to animal fighting
the bill it talks about passed in the 1st stages but now we're just waiting for the House to approve. (or the senate which ever comes next, i cant remember at this moment)

but ... it's bills like that, that will help these animals in the long run and help support the owners who DO take care and love their animals


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you have such an adorable "furry" baby.

you are right about the problem being "Ignorant, sonsofbitch lazy OWNERS". a co-worker of mine always says "punish the owner, not the dog".

I'd also like to know how the utility guy would feel if someone hit him with a stick!

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